How Will You Build?
- Originally published:
- June 1, 2025
By Jeffrey S. Straub · 1 min read
How Will You Build?
We talk a lot about the right to defend ourselves. And we should.
But if all we’re chasing is permission to shoot someone under the right conditions, we’ve already lost the bigger battle.
Because righteous self-defense isn’t just about the trigger. It’s about the kind of person you are when the moment comes.
Anyone can justify pulling a weapon. The courts are full of people who tried.
But very few can say, “When it all went down, I stood on justice. I walked in mercy. I moved with grace.”
So here’s the question that’s been eating at me lately:
When that moment of crisis comes… will you just defend your body, or will you defend your character?
It’s not just about surviving. It’s about being the kind of man or woman who doesn’t have to hide from the mirror after the smoke clears.
You didn’t start the fight. (Innocence.)
You only acted when the danger was real. (Imminence.)
You responded with the right amount of force. No more, no less. (Proportionality.)
You avoided it if you could. (Avoidance.)
And if someone else had been in your shoes, they’d have done the same. (Reasonableness.)
That’s not fantasy. That’s the blueprint for righteous action.
And here’s the kicker. Jesus modeled all five. Not in a courtroom, but on a cross.
He didn’t fight out of fear. He didn’t react from pride.
He didn’t use His power to destroy. He used it to redeem.
He could’ve defended Himself. Instead, He chose to defend you.
So if your view of self-defense leaves no room for justice, mercy, or grace,
you don’t need more ammo.
You need a new architect.
This life is a house you’re building.
The question isn’t, “Can I shoot?”
The question is, “Can I stand?”
And when I stand, will what I built be worth living in?
Build well, friends. The storm doesn’t warn you when it’s coming.
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